I know now that I've been lucky that my first (and only) child when I was nearly 32 years. I was more mature than I was in my 20 and ready to learn about having a baby and be a mother. A boy I study?
But because my life was settled at that time, I was also able to just tune in to my child's needs. I was able to focus on the child more than I could have done in previous years. What I am most concerned about today is that parents, especially mothers, have or take the time to focus on their children and their development in a way that the instinct to show them if they could just take time. But lives are so busy today. So many young mothers have to return to work so soon after their children are born, that they May not have time to focus on just a mom for a very long time. It's sad.
However, there are things that every mother (or parent) can do to assist in the development of verbal. Mothers in particular learn to use a special kind of child to speak. This does not mean that they are (or should) use what most think in terms of children's speech. Instead, the mother instinctively seem to know that only slow down their speech, speaking in a higher tone of voice and carefully articulated words seem to make their children tune them much better.
Somehow I just knew these things when I had my son. I spoke with him even before he was born. I read books with him, sang to him. His father and I went to a concert of the Symphony Orchestra and was able to sit in the front row. (Introduction thought I looked like I was ready to have a child, even though I was only seven months along, and they wanted me near the exit.) During the concert, we discovered that our son loved music more quickly than slow. He turned and struck in the abdomen as the music rose to a crescendo.
After our son was born, his dad and I continued to read it every day and sang with him. We played all kinds of music, and soon he would rather sleep with soft music in the background.
When he was just a kid, I loved the use of markers on large sheets poster board, and classical music in the background. Maybe hearing such music, when it was still in the womb is what helped him to animate when he heard the same music as a child. Perhaps it is and why he likes to listen to all kinds of music now as an adult. He has heard all kinds of music, while he was still in development and as a baby.
, we had agreed at the outset not to use "baby talk", preferring instead to talk to our child as an adult. We did talk to him in complete sentences, and we are the words that we commonly use as we talk with each other. But we also instinctively slow down our speech patterns and words spoken more strongly with higher pitched voices. These things definitely helped our children learn to understand speech patterns, and, probably, has helped him learn to speak early in himself.
Listening to our son had to be of help as well. When he said: "bababa" I would ask him what he is trying to say. We could repeat their clamor for a brief moment, letting him know that we have heard it. Then we use the word starting with the same sound as his babbling, perhaps using the word "baby" and showing him the picture of the baby.
Our baby soon learns to express their dissatisfaction and anger in a way that is not crying. In just a few months old, he was angry to use this series, "didididi" quite loudly when angry or disturbed. Sometimes, when he was particularly angry, he waved his hands as "cursed." While smiling and laughing at it could be tempting, usually to acknowledge their anger and try to help change things. If he could not retrieve the toy, while using their child "cussing", which would help him get the toys. If you said, "didididi" while sitting in a high chair and staring at the foods that might not appeal to him at this point, we would offer more food.
When my son and I traveled together in the car, and I talked with him. I told him I could see through the window, where they went, what you should do. He played with the toys attached to his car seat, but he also listened. Today is 22, but still have some of our best conversations while driving in the car.
We live in a strange world. People are far too busy with work, television, Internet usage and friends to spend the time they should really getting to know and understand their babies. Just taking the time to talk with them and read them can make all the difference in the world, even when very young.
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