The Difficulty Of Losing A Loved One

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The loss of a loved one as if swept under the rug you. I should know because I lost four family members in a period of seven godina.Tragedija never disappears. You just learn how to deal with it and keep moving on.

The first to go was my only child who was two years at the time. I left him with his baby sitter and returned home to find out that it is drowned in a lake nearby. I wrote a whole story about how the sample chapter. I really never get over the loss of a loved one. You just try very hard to get on with your life.

The second family is the loss of my stepfather, who, believe it or not, drowned in the lake of the same eleven months after the death of my son. His body was never found, and my mother never had closure with the whole ideal because there is no body to bury. In fact, she watched the whole incident to develop before her and was powerless to save him. I'm sure there are plenty of guilt today.

Two years later, my grandmother suddenly falls ill and is rushed to hospital where he died two days kasnije.Uzrok death was cancer, a family secret that I was not privy to until his death. It was heartbreaking for me because I have not seen her in five years and was not able to say goodbye. It is also difficult for my mother who is still grieving for her husband.

Four years later, the tragedy of losing my only sister and mother of the baby daughter in a car accident a toll on us all. We were all in shock. It seemed unreasonable for the family to be able to endure so much. My mother had to be put on tranquilizers because he was having a hard time coping with it. It was just too much for her to bear. I had to download all the funeral arrangements and caring for my sister's three children are left behind.

there is no way I could do whatever I have ID, without being at the stage of denial of sadness. I went through the motions, but I do not believe it. I kept my feelings under control, because I did not want to upset my mother anymore. I also went through the state's fault that I want to be the one who died instead of my sister. I felt guilty as one who was still alive. I was not able to cope with your feelings right now, because I thought more about how to comfort my mother. I had the experience of losing a child so I know how it feels empty, but the pain of loss of my sister lit the pain I felt for my son and I can not find the right words to say to encourage her.

there is no way I could do whatever I have ID, without being at the stage of denial of sadness. I went through the motions, but I do not believe it. I kept my feelings under control, because I did not want to upset my mother anymore. I also went through the state's fault that I want to be the one who died instead of my sister. I felt guilty as one who was still alive. I was not able to cope with your feelings right now, because I thought more about how to comfort my mother. I had the experience of losing a child so I know how it feels empty, but the pain of loss of my sister lit the pain I felt for my son and I can not find the right words to say to encourage her.

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How do you tell your mother you are sorry that it had lost a child who is your sister, but you wanted that you have instead? It seemed so selfish to me to be thinking that way, but when you are grieving, self-pity is one of the emotions that surface and the shock will create irrational thoughts especially when you have gone through so much as I had.

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My family and I stayed close throughout the whole ordeal. We realized that our experience will enable us to reach out to others and make a difference in the lives of those who may still be grieving or have just lost a loved one. Never give up hope. Keep in life and you will cure your pain, but remember to stay close to their families in the process.

Cheryline Lawson's mother, who was on an emotional journey loses an only child and wrote a book titled "Coping with Grief", and provides income odknjiga back to a support group to help grieving the family. Learn more about how you can help by visiting her website at =>