You're at home, running, with only five minutes left, if you do it in the last half of the games group. You still have to get your kids shoes, get them into their car seats, and drive through the city. Urgently invite you to their child that it is time to go. What have you heard? "No mom, I do not want to go I want to stay home!" If you've finally managed to get out of the house, you'll probably find yourself in the same battle-honed hour later, when it is time to return home for lunch.
As any parent of a child who knows, transitions are one of the biggest challenges, but inevitably, parts of the day. Shortly after our cute little baby master the essential skills you need to walk and talk, irresistible need to make their decisions begin to surface. Although this is an exciting time, we run into trouble when our children realize that the only way to make their own decisions is the first to disagree with everything you have to say. Now when you ask them to do something, even if it is to eat ice cream, it is very likely to refuse!
Creativity is essential parenting skills. Parents can guide their children's transitions and have a peaceful, productive, and nonconfrontational day using some "tricks" below:
Sing the song - Singing for the initiation and the transition is especially helpful for young children. By being consistent and using the same song for the selected activity your child will learn that these songs are clues to what comes next. We all know the "Clean Up" song, about how "It's the way we put on our shoes" or "If you're ready and you know it, stand near the door!"
offered a choice of - Children are much more willing to cooperate if they feel like they have some control over the process. Bring two pairs of shoes through your child and say. "It is time to put your shoes Would you wear your sneakers or your sandals I wonder which ones will you choose?". (Keep the choices to two.)
Use humor and / or a little reverse psychology - If your child is at first refused to put on her shoes, put them on your hands and walk, dance, or run them near him. Use a silly voice and say: "You can not catch me! I do not want to go on foot! No, No, NO!" You will definitely have their attention, and he will most likely grab the game off your hands and quickly to his feet.
Look at - Talk about what comes next. One client told me that after I suggested this technique it has never had another problem with getting her child to go somewhere fun. Her son immediately got up to go home when he tells them that their dog is missing. She reminds him that he needs her help to refresh your dog's water bowl and take him for walks. Think about things your child likes to do at home, watering plants, setting the table, playing with playdough,. All that your child gets excited about it as soon as
Good luck and remember to enjoy this special time with your child because it goes by too fast. If all else fails, play groups can always wait until next week!
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